Thursday, April 12, 2012

My Recent Confrontation with a Man named John Uccello of 61 Bretton Road, Middletown, CT who can Dish it out but He Cannot take it, In Connection with the Trayvon Martin murder case

This Facebook post yesterday by my friend Ryan Estevez, following the arrest of George Zimmerman on Second Degree Murder charges in the killing of Trayvon Martin, called to mind the following recent confrontation I had with a man named John who can dish it out but he cannot take it.   The story about the encounter, which involved John calling the Middletown police, follows the Facebook post.






      A man named John Uccello of 61 Bretton Road, Middletown, CT called the Middletown police on me a few weeks ago at Klekolo Coffee shop in Middletown.  He was mouthing off that Trayvon Martin had viciously physically attacked George Zimmerman and broke Zimmerman's nose and bloodied his face.  In response, John was certain, Zimmerman HAD to use his weapon to shoot and kill Trayvon.  I said I very much doubted this was what happened.  I asked John what his source of information was: Fox News, he reported.  I said when I read it in the NYTimes I may decide to give it some credence, although even the Times has gotten things wrong in the past (think WMD in Iraq and Judith Martin's failure to question the Bush administration sufficiently on the point).
       A few days later, when more of the facts about the case had come out in the press, including the police video of Zimmerman walking with no visible evidence of trauma on his face, I again saw this man John at Klekolo.  I asked him if he was now going to retract his slanderous comments about Trayvon.  He told me to "get out of his face."  I asked him why he had been able to dish it out to me in our previous encounter but now he couldn't handle my coming back at him, armed with more realistic reports about the case.
       I then walked away from him and began talking with a woman I knew and her friend at another table.  I heard John calling the police dispatcher and describing my clothing and appearance.  "What a WIMP," I thought, that this grown man needs to call his Mommy the police to fight his mental battle with me!
       The police showed up, I explained what happened, they asked me to leave, and I told them I intended to remain to finish my conversation with the women.  When that was concluded, I left the coffee shop and was talking to some people on the sidewalk outside.  Another young man who apparently frequents the coffee shop told me to leave.  I told him I was standing on a public sidewald and would leave when I decided to leave.  The police were standing around and asked me to leave.  I asked them if they were the mediatators of neighborhood non-violent disagreements and they said they were not.  I told the police I objected to their using their apparent authority, as armed officers of the law, to ask me to leave a public sidewalk when I was not committing any crime or hurting anyone.  They did not know what to say but again reiterated their request I leave, just to "calm the situation down."  I looked the cop in the eye, smiled, and told him that, out of the goodness of my heart, and because I liked the way he had handled the situation inside the coffee shop involving John, in a calm and restrained fashion, I decided I'd leave and go elsewhere in town.  The cop thanked me, I thanked him, and I left.  On the way by the window to the coffee shop, I smiled and waved at John through the window, but he, having no balls and looking like a frustrated and angry little boy, looked away.
        I have ZERO respect for people who can dish it out but can't take it.  ZERO.  Pity, disdain, yes, but NO respect.


Why I've Decided to Delete All Future Comments by the Deranged Individual Who's Posted Many Scurrilous, Untrue, and Un-Creative Lies about my Wife, my Children, and Me

I've decided this morning to delete any future Comments by this deranged and hostile individual who's been posting scurrilous, untrue, and un-creative lies about my wife, my children, and me.  An intelligent, concerned reader wrote the following Comment which I just read and responded to.  If you read my Reply Comment, you'll see why I've made this decision.

Here's the Comment and my Reply:


            AnonymousApr 11, 2012 06:27 PM

  1. I don't know Bob, sure makes you look stupid not him. Why would you want to re-post these comments? They are quite offensive. Giving acknowledgment only fuels the situation.
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  2. Dear Concerned Anonymous (April 11, 2012 at 6:27 p.m.),

    You make a good point about the fueling. I decided this morning that, from now on, I'll delete any of his future Comments, not because they make me look stupid but only because the Comments are the productions of a psychotic mind. As such, they are novel but uninteresting, not useful; therefore, they are not creative, as I define the term.

    You're entitled to any opinion of me you wish to have. But I assure you of one thing: I used my intelligence, not my lack thereof, in deciding to let this deranged man have his say. But he's now begun to clutter my blog.

    His Comments do not offend me. They are untrue assertions, the product of either insanity or extreme hostility towards me and my free life. I actually suspect the latter is his motivation: to denigrate me, in his mind, because he cannot stand seeing someone else, me, having so much fun in my life. But that's just the story which comes to my mind in connection with this guy.

    What always fascinates, amuses me really, is the fact that NO ONE has accepted my challenge to call my cell phone and arrange to meet me. I'm not afraid of any of them , but they are afraid of me, even though I wish none of them any harm. I'm merely interested to STUDY them, understand their psycho-pathology, as a psychiatrist who studies the minds of serial killers wants to study and understand why they kill and kill and kill again.

    I truly thank you for your expression of concern and support.

    All best,

    Bob

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

More Rambling Comments from this Chicken Shit Scared Little Boy Who Will Not Accept My Invitation to Meet With Me

Dear Chicken Shit Anonymous,

       If you have any guts, call me.  My cell number is 860-759-9860.  I'd LOVE to meet you.  Do you have the balls to say what you want to say to my face?

All best,

A Real Man

Here are his psychotic fantasies.  Interesting. Most revealing about his psychological make-up.


He got arrested at a comic club and entered no contest! He was offended by a black guy saying the word nigger! It's too much. He really thinks he's black. Guess that's why his wife left him and he spends all his money at the few clubs where they allow dancing clowns.
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Bet you can't wait to connect to your grandson orally. Your words Bobby.
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People know him. This is so funny. I asked some people and he used to go to Rookies before he got banned. People would take pics as a joke and he bought it. He also spend hundreds on girls who used him to get drinks for them and their boyfriends. A complete loser.
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Can this guy post videos of him dancing? Please Bob can we see you dancing? If your're as good as you say you are we'll get you back invited to the club of your choice. Except of course the ones you got tossed out of for spreading HIV. People tend not to forgive that.
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He also thinks going to a black church makes him black. They must hate that cracker. I think he goes because he thinks it will help him dance hip hop! Seriously. He has mental issues so deep. Look at the video post a couple pages back.
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Look at his older posts. They are the best. He writes a letter because he parked illegally and got towed. He said nothing told him that it was illegal to park in a closed private parking lot at 2 a.m. Yes, he is a lawyer or claims to be one! I wonder why he thought there was such ample room in that lot. Most peoe don't have shit for brains. All that booze must have really rotted his brains.
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Look this guy up on Google. He has a paragraph for a farewell for his lawfirm of 35 years! Must have been a terrible loss. He's also an alcoholic, been cited in several police blotters, may or may not have cut the brakes on his wife's bike leading to her broken neck, is barred from all CT casinos, and his own daughter denies him as her father. This is crazy! Let's enjoy him while we can before he has a shotgun for lunch.
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Your weren't kidding. Who is this guy challenging? What is he challenging people to? This is by far the best fake blog I've seen in a while.
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This is too much. What would you even do Bobby if you did have my name? Now be a good little punk and give the cemetery where where your mom is buried so I can dig her up and skull fuck her like your dad used to. Then give me your home address and we can chat like civilized people.

This guy who writes vile Comments on this blog is such a wimp he won't even DARE to contact me to arrange to meet me face-to-face

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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

An Anonymous Imbecile Fantasizes a Class Action Against Me by My Former Clients for whom he Imagines I Lost their Cases--and a Wonderful Memory this Evoked in me from When I was a Very Young Lawyer

Below is an Anonymous Comment some imbecile, one of my haters, left this morning.  He fantasizes someone bringing a class action against me on behalf of any of my clients whose cases he imagines I lost.  If he weren't such a poor writer or had something interesting to say on the subject, I'd actually find what he wrote funny, in an ironic way.  But the guy is so far out in left field that it would be unkind of me to laugh at such a cretin's stupid Comment.

However, my reply Comment called to mind a wonderful memory I have of a seasoned war-horse of a trial lawyer, Bill Davis, whom I heard give a talk about what he learned from the cases he lost over his career.  I heard this talk at a trial lawyers' seminar on trial practice back in the late 1970's.  I wasn't even 30 years old and had only been practicing a few years.  I was SO impressed by what I heard from Mr. Davis that I used the wisdom I learned from him in guiding countless young lawyers over the years at my own firm.

Here is the Anonymous Imbecile's Comment, followed by my reply, containing the recollection about Mr. Davis.


  1. I'm collecting names of formal clients of Mr. Robert P. Dutcher to file a class action suit. Anyone for whom he represented is entitled to have thier case reviewed to determine if Mr. Dutcher was negligent is handling your case due to mental incapacity. Of course if you were the few who actual had their case won, you should count your blessings. The losers please make a stand as you were misrepresented.
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  2. Dear Anonymous Imbecile (April 4, 2012 at 6:36 a.m.),

    That's actually pretty funny. If you weren't a mental defective, seriously retarded, I'd laugh.

    Go ahead, former clients. Sue away. But consider the following.

    Such claims would never qualify for class action status. There is no commonality in the causes of action of each allegedly "misrepresented" client.

    The statute of limitations has run on 99% of the alleged claims.

    You know, Anonymous Imbecile, if you could write a grammatical English sentence it would make it easier for my readers to understand your semi-formed thoughts, if such can be said about the poorly-communicated fantasies of an Anonymous idiot like you. Please get some remedial writing lessons. It would appear you think at a kindergarten level and write at a second grade level. Please keep me posted on your attempts to become reasonably literate. I care.

    When I was a young lawyer, the most impressive lecture I ever heard at a CT Trial Lawyers Association seminar was the legendary trial lawyer Bill Davis explaining "What I Learned from Losing." All the lawyer blow-hards who preceded Bill, as usual, bragged about all their big victories in court. Bill had the BALLS to talk about all the losses he had sustained over the years and what he learned from each loss.

    Whenever a young associate of mine would return from court having won his or her first jury trial, I'd take the winner out to lunch. First I congratulated the victor on the win. Then I said the following. "I know how good it feels to win. But I need to inform you that you didn't learn ANYTHING useful from winning. You only inflated your ego, which may hurt you in the next case, if you overestimate your case or your abilities. However, when you learn to absorb your first loss, and your second and third, especially the humiliating losses, then you'll learn some very important lessons."

    In saying these things to my young associates, I was just passing on the wisdom I learned many decades ago from Bill Davis.

    All best,

    A Most Intelligent and Savvy Trial Lawyer, retired
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Tuesday, April 3, 2012

More on the tragic, wanton, and needless execution of Trayvon Martin by George "Junior Police Explorer with a Big Piece and a Little Wiener" Zimmerman:

More on the tragic, wanton, and needless execution of Trayvon Martin by George "Junior Police Explorer with a Big Piece and a Little Wiener" Zimmerman:


I'd love to represent the family of Trayvon Martin in their civil lawsuit against George Zimmerman and the homeowners' association which utilized Mr. Zimmerman's vigilante execution services to hunt down and kill Trayvon. In the civil suit for wrongful death due to the use of unnecessary and excessive force, the burden of proof for money damages is only a fair preponderance of the evidence and not beyond a reasonable doubt. The homeowners' association will hopefully have liability insurance to cover the negligence aspect of the claim but the willful and wanton aspect will not be covered by insurance. It is possible, depending on how the facts come out, that the homeowners' association, and even the individual homeowners themselves, will be liable for the intentional tort liability. If I represented Trayvon's estate, I would be seeking millions and millions of dollars in compensation for the loss of this wonderful young man who was the victim of a vigilante executioner, George Zimmerman. And I would try in any way possible to hold Zimmerman, the homeowners' association, and even the individual homeowners liable for punitive damages as well. 


By the way, if you think that Zimmerman may be found criminally not guilty, that does not preclude a later verdict of liability against him in a civil claim for money damages. Think about how OJ Simpson was acquitted of murder in the criminal case but convicted in the civil claim for money damages.