tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post349091761720807325..comments2024-03-06T22:36:32.311-08:00Comments on Bob's blog: More Rambling Comments from this Chicken Shit Scared Little Boy Who Will Not Accept My Invitation to Meet With MeBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-62679256614449780272012-04-12T18:23:35.165-07:002012-04-12T18:23:35.165-07:00Can you post video of you dancing? Please do that ...Can you post video of you dancing? Please do that and I'll never bother you again. I don't think I'd be able to catch my breath long enough to type. Please post those videos. Let the people see your genius.Jamienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-59743491802544193692012-04-12T18:16:24.425-07:002012-04-12T18:16:24.425-07:00Dear Questioning Anonymous (April 12, 2012 at 5:57...Dear Questioning Anonymous (April 12, 2012 at 5:57 p.m.),<br /><br /> No, I am not using or taking drugs. I have never had problems with the law in connection with drugs or alcohol. And I am not now, and never have been, an alcoholic. I have a beer occasionally. I mostly drink water in the dance clubs where I dance for three or four hours at a time, without a break.<br /><br />All best,<br /><br />The One Who Answers HonestlyBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-61507760279105635632012-04-12T17:57:09.979-07:002012-04-12T17:57:09.979-07:00Are you using drugs at this time? Have you had any...Are you using drugs at this time? Have you had any problems with the law with drug use or your alcoholism?Irenenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-56627604125941431312012-04-12T17:25:17.833-07:002012-04-12T17:25:17.833-07:00Dear Irine (April 12, 2012 at 3:47 p.m.),
I...Dear Irine (April 12, 2012 at 3:47 p.m.),<br /><br /> I never took any steps to end my life but I seriously thought about it. Fortunately, I had a loving wife and children, and many family and friends from all over the world who stood by me in my darkest moments.<br /><br /> The reasons are complex but suffice it to say I lost all zest for life. I grew to hate all the high tension of my job as a trial lawyer, doing the same kinds of tasks, over and over, for 36 years. One of the greatest gifts I've ever gotten from life is the conscious wish to kill myself and the unconscious knowledge that I needed to change my life, radically, not die a physical death. Through very hard and difficult work in psycho-therapy, and just waiting for clarity to emerge from my inchoate sense that everything was "wrong" about my career, I finally came to the realization that I needed to leave my very successful career as a lawyer. I did so on the last day of March, 2011. I have never once regretted my decision.<br /><br /> If you've been following my blog, you'll have a good understanding of the adventurous, exciting life I'm not leading. It's unconventional, threatening in its freedom to some observers, but what I'm doing is all legal. There is really nothing anyone can do to me, legally, to prevent me from living this life I've chosen to lead.<br /><br /> A famous saying is this: "We all owe God a death." None of us know when that debt will come due. It could be any minute. I plan to live my life, for the rest of my life, as if God will demand full repayment, tomorrow morning. If you think about that perspective, you'll have no problem understanding why I take the risks I take. The rewards are enormous. I have never once thought about killing myself since that very dark period in a very dark wood (see Dante's "Inferno," Canto 1, first stanza) ended at the beginning of the new year, in January of 2011.<br /><br /> Thank you for asking a profound question. Godspeed to you, my friend.<br /><br />All best,<br /><br />BobBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-75534122981071282862012-04-12T15:47:03.652-07:002012-04-12T15:47:03.652-07:00Please explain why you wanted to kill yourself? Di...Please explain why you wanted to kill yourself? Did you try to end your life? Did it have anything to do with your family?Irinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-34185419800605320272012-04-12T12:04:28.204-07:002012-04-12T12:04:28.204-07:00Dear John Uccello of 61 Bretton Road, Middletown, ...Dear John Uccello of 61 Bretton Road, Middletown, CT (April 12, 2012 at 10:21 a.m.),<br /><br /> I do not have an ex-wife. I am married. And I know your wife Sherry. She is a very nice person, like my wife. I wonder if Sherry knows you are writing these kinds of false and defamatory Comments about my wife, my family, me, and my professional status and history as a lawyer. You are exposing yourself to a claim for money damages for libel. If you are repeating your lies orally, you are liable for slander.<br /><br /> From the way you write, with missing letters and poor grammar, I wonder if you are: 1. poorly-educated; 2. drunk; 3. merely stupid; 4. all of the preceding?<br /><br /> Shall I copy all of your lovely Comments and send them to your wife Sherry? Or to your employees? I wonder how they would all see you then? Do you care?<br /><br /> Please let me know your thoughts.<br /><br /> You still have not gathered up the courage to call me to arrange a time and place to meet me so we can discuss this face to face, as men do. Forget it already? It's 860-759-9860. Perhaps we should meet all together to talk all of this over: Sherry, your wife, you, my wife, and me. I wonder if Sherry knows you have very aggressive sexual thoughts about my wife. Would she even care, given the type of scared little boy you are, always calling on Mommy Police Force to protect you from the really (to you) scary lawyer Bob Dutcher? Poor baby, John Uccello. Poor baby. Let's meet with our wives and hash it ALL out. Okay? I'm waiting to hear from you, son.<br /><br />All best,<br /><br />Your Daddy FigureBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-31931949617775242722012-04-12T10:21:32.589-07:002012-04-12T10:21:32.589-07:00Oh what are you plans? More clown dancing and cock...Oh what are you plans? More clown dancing and cock sucking? I understand your priorities. Your not going out with your exwive right? Cause if not can I get her number? I have yours and I don't k kw why yor obsessed with me calling you. I wasn't drunk when I wrote that post but I'll be plenty drunk when your wife asks me to fuck her face. Also Bob, answer the question. Do you believe you are black?Johnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-83513826149638116192012-04-12T07:04:15.103-07:002012-04-12T07:04:15.103-07:00P.S.: I rather suspect from the "quality"...P.S.: I rather suspect from the "quality" of the lies and fantasies, and the weak thought process, that it was you, but I was waiting to flush you out of the dark cave in which you were sulking. You have taken the bait, now let's meet and clear the air. You still owe Trayvon Martin an apology for the lies you told about him and his execution by Zimmerman.Bob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-35194985068121196432012-04-12T07:02:06.711-07:002012-04-12T07:02:06.711-07:00Dear Carrie (April 12, 2012 at 5:32 a.m.),
I...Dear Carrie (April 12, 2012 at 5:32 a.m.),<br /><br /> I am NOT inviting violence and vigilantism. I am inviting people who say things in the shadows of anonymity to meet with me and say whatever they have to say to me, face to face.<br /><br /> How is THAT an invitation to violence and vigilantism?<br /><br />All best,<br /><br />BobBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-2339671099285563442012-04-12T07:00:39.656-07:002012-04-12T07:00:39.656-07:00Dear John the Deluded One Formerly Anonymous (Apri...Dear John the Deluded One Formerly Anonymous (April 12, 2012 5:51 a.m.),<br /><br /> I have plans for the evening which I will not cancel for the likes of you. However, call me on my cell, 860-759-9860, and we can arrange a mutually-convenient time and place to meet. Perhaps we should meet right outside the police station downtown. That way, if you get out of control, the police can take you into custody right then and there.<br /><br /> Call me. Hey, we're neighbors.<br /><br /> By the way, I am not disbarred but retain my law license. I have not lost my wife. We remain married. I have not lost my home. My wife and I own two homes in Middletown, both fully paid off. <br /><br /> What language were you using when you said: "You COIL even write a poem about that."? Are you drunk?<br /><br />All best,<br /><br />Your Neighborly Writer, Dancer, and Comedian BobBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-10541847494229563852012-04-12T05:51:37.068-07:002012-04-12T05:51:37.068-07:00I say meet with me you idiot it was me the whole t...I say meet with me you idiot it was me the whole time. Took you long enough to figure it out. Meet me at Klekolo's at eight tonight. I will be calling the polic before hand so you know. That doesn't scare you does it? I mean you are a disbarred lawyer who street dances and lost his wife and home. What else do you stand to lose? Maybe your cell mates will like your Seinfeld comedy as they mouth rape you. You coil even write a poem about that. JohnJohnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-43600024307054561102012-04-12T05:32:12.356-07:002012-04-12T05:32:12.356-07:00I agree with the original poster. You are inviting...I agree with the original poster. You are inviting violence and vigilantism. Please be responsibleCarrienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-31643744923067119692012-04-12T04:20:11.206-07:002012-04-12T04:20:11.206-07:00Dear Concerned Anonymous (April 11, 2012 at 6:27 p...Dear Concerned Anonymous (April 11, 2012 at 6:27 p.m.),<br /><br /> You make a good point about the fueling. I decided this morning that, from now on, I'll delete any of his future Comments, not because they make me look stupid but only because the Comments are the productions of a psychotic mind. As such, they are novel but uninteresting, not useful; therefore, they are not creative, as I define the term.<br /><br /> You're entitled to any opinion of me you wish to have. But I assure you of one thing: I used my intelligence, not my lack thereof, in deciding to let this deranged man have his say. But he's now begun to clutter my blog. <br /><br /> His Comments do not offend me. They are untrue assertions, the product of either insanity or extreme hostility towards me and my free life. I actually suspect the latter is his motivation: to denigrate me, in his mind, because he cannot stand seeing someone else, me, having so much fun in my life. But that's just the story which comes to my mind in connection with this guy.<br /><br /> What always fascinates, amuses me really, is the fact that NO ONE has accepted my challenge to call my cell phone and arrange to meet me. I'm not afraid of any of them , but they are afraid of me, even though I wish none of them any harm. I'm merely interested to STUDY them, understand their psycho-pathology, as a psychiatrist who studies the minds of serial killers wants to study and understand why they kill and kill and kill again.<br /><br /> I truly thank you for your expression of concern and support.<br /><br />All best,<br /><br />BobBob Dutcher aka Grandudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181553280321294482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253425232909087917.post-65519966258514763132012-04-11T18:27:49.395-07:002012-04-11T18:27:49.395-07:00I don't know Bob, sure makes you look stupid n...I don't know Bob, sure makes you look stupid not him. Why would you want to re-post these comments? They are quite offensive. Giving acknowledgment only fuels the situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com